I finally get it, I think my confusion was ultimately based on the idea that the wheels, truck, and couplers were all together. Mainly because I have no newer cars and the older cars had them together. I guess these are the Talgo trucks you mentioned before? I have a temporary fix for the time being. I have swapped out a hook and horn coupler on one of my Talgo trucks with an ez mate coupler. This is so I can at least couple with the locomotive, it's not a very good connection, but I'm running at a lower speed on just an oval right now. I have to get through the holidays before I proceed with upgrading my fleet of cars, which is 12 and expanding my track. Thanks again for your help!