Looking at the diagram for the J believe i see what your talking about p/n 00T03....strange looking drawbar if thats it,also see what looks like a mating part 00T02 with slots for the drawbar to fit in, try lubing those slots with a little plastic compatible grease ,bet you'll also find the same slots on the locomotive frame under the cab....lube those also.
try it and let us know if it helps.
try it and let us know if it helps.